Sunday, May 22, 2011

A Rambling: People that Piss Me Off


You know what pisses me off? People who watch shows like 'Sister Wives' on TLC and then bitch about it. "Oh that's gross." "Who wants more than one wife?" "I can't believe people are like that." WHY WATCH THE SHOW IF YOU'RE GONNA BITCH ABOUT IT? I mean seriously. Why? What's the point? Why can't you just leave those people alone? It's their choice to live the lifestyle they're living. If you don't like it, don't watch the damn show!



Personally, I'm totally NOT saying I support polygamy. However, I will say (and you can quote me on this) I SUPPORT EACH INDIVIDUAL PERSON'S LIFESTYLE CHOICE. If you wanna be gay and/or a cross-dresser, go for it! If you've got five wives, awesome for you. If you wanna be a stripper or prostitute, that's all right by me. If you wanna be my neighbor, move right on in next door! Hell, let's be friends. We can go shopping and hang out and you can teach me how to cook (or strip, cuz that might be fun). Just, don't ask if I wanna sleep with you, or marry you, cuz i'm already taken, lol. (And yes, that's a gratuitous stripper shot.)


I just don't understand how people can be so hypocritical. I mean, I know I can be occasionally, but i'm not like, THAT bad. I mean, I think the only time I ever come across as hypocritical is when i'm talking about raising children (mostly my child, actually.) But, I still think that it's so stupid to be so close-minded.

Just some Random Musings of the Day

I'm hungry.

Yeah it's random, i know. I just don't know what to cook today/tonight. And i'm tired.

We're watching Tangled for the billionth time. I really do like the movie, but this is just like... outrageous. It's almost a little too much for me. And here i'm gonna throw in an image from my favorite scene. It looks best in the 3D version of the movie, however.

i'm starting to get really annoyed and really upset at this living arrangement. Sunny can't be good, ever. Levi is either good and quiet or he's fussy. Shayla is fussy when she has to share toys or when Sonny takes her toys. Or any other time that one of the kids upsets her. We are constantly being told not to say this or that because the kids pick up on it. Well, that's all well and good, but Shayla rarely repeats what Chance and I say. Glenda is just so incredibly worried about what Sonny will say at school and make her look bad, I think. It's really stupid, but I can see the point. Him being Autistic, I think it must be harder for her to teach him that he can't always repeat what he hears the adults saying.

On another random note, Sims 3 Generations comes out in 9 DAYS!!! I'm so freaking excited about that. There's gonna be so much expanded gameplay during the generations and i'm just tripping out. I've been saving money and working extra hours just to be able to buy it and the Prima game guide, lol. I think i'm completely addicted to Sims, lol. I really enjoy playing it. Its so nice to have my own house on Sims, even if I can't have one in real life.

Sunday, May 8, 2011

Flower beds are supposed to have flowers, right?

Well happy mother's day to my fellow maternal figures in the world today! You have (or will) raised beautiful children who will (or have) grow into beautiful adults.

Work was kinda cool today (pun intended). I got to play in the walk-in cooler and freezer with a knife for an hour, hacking away at the huge ice formations that previously graced those cool walls. It wasn't too busy but Dustin was kind enough to let me stay for the full duration of my 3 hour shift, since he knows it's such a long drive for me.

On a warmer note, my lovely mother-in-law has decided to plant a garden in the flower beds out front. I heard this and got all excited, imaging lovely pink and white rose bushes with huge blossoming roses that purfume the air with their delicious fragrance, while their bases are surrounded by little clusters of marigolds, pansys, and petunias in a wide range of colors, their scents mingling with the roses, making a bright splash of color in front of our house, livening it up, in my opinion.

Instead, she is busy planting a vegetable garden. In front of our house. And to make matters worse, we are covering the gardens in hay. As if we aren't redneck trashy enough. To complete our mish-mash of junked out buildings and overgrown broken down animal pens out back, we are planting a vegetable garden in front of the house. I'm really bummed out by this. I love flowers, and this is as close as I'm going to get to having my own house, but I don't get to decorate it my own way, I dont get any say-so over what goes on. I'm cleaning up after 6-7 people daily, doing dishes and picking up toys. I can't have anything nice out anywhere, not even my own room, because the autistic little devil comes in my room and takes shit. My wallet was missing for 2 days, found in his hidey-hole of stolen goods, along with some of Shay's toys. My unopened can of Dr Pepper was never found. He stole a box of condoms from my room. He tore up Shay's princess books we just got her for Christmas.

It's so bad I have to take some of Shay's toys away and put them up where he can't get them. It just makes me so mad I could cry. He's taken my bottle drinks and cups from resturaunts. I can't set anything down for 2 seconds with him around. The worst part is she said she was gonna start staying in Bryan every other night or so during the week to save on gas, cuz she has to take the devil's boy to school every weekday, so that means she wont be here to take care of the garden. Which means she'll be asking me or Chance to help out. Like Chance doesn't have enough on his plate as it is.

He tore up the car when he hit a hog this week, so we take it on Monday to be repaired and we are without a car for the week. Not even sure if we can get a loaner car or anything either. Great, huh?

Tuesday, May 3, 2011

Setting the Record Straight: Infectious Mononucleosis

Well, we found out on Friday, Chance (of all people) has mono. Yikes! I decided to do a little research on it, because I wanted to know how in the damn Hell he caught it. My info came from several medical sites and journals, and I'm paraphrasing what I read, so I may be wrong on some things, but for the most part, its almost accurate.

Mono is pretty damn gross, if you ask me. It's spread through saliva and once you catch you, your body creates antibodies and you never actually catch it again. However, you can have occasional outbreaks. Mono is a form of the EBV (Epstien-Barr virus) virus, which is the Herpes virus. Yup, herpes. So, basically, Mono is kinda like herpes. Mono is like the 2nd most commonly spread virus next to the common cold. Once you have mono, it never actually leaves you. Your body continues secreting the virus in your saliva for years. For this reason, mono is almost impossible not to spread. Every sneeze, every cough, puts tiny, microscopic particles of your saliva (no matter how well you cover your mouth and/or nose) into the air, which other people breathe in, and volia! contract the virus.

The following information and image is taken directly from MedicineNet.com, because I didn't wanna misquote this incredible information.

"In the U.S., up to 95% of adults 35-40 years of age have antibodies directed against EBV. This means that most people, sometime in their lives, have been infected with EBV. The EBV can infect any person. As previously discussed, the majority of people have become infected with the virus by the time that they reach adulthood, and the majority of these infections produce no symptoms or are not recognized as mono. Mono is most often diagnosed in adolescents and young adults, with a peak incidence at 15-17 years of age. However, it is also seen in children. Generally, the illness is less severe in young children and may mimic the symptoms of other common childhood illnesses, which may explain why it is less commonly diagnosed or recognized in this younger age group."




The image I've linked above is basically a list of symptoms and signs of Infectious Mononucleosis.

More Information from MedicineNet.com:

How is mono transmitted or spread?


Mono is spread by person-to-person contact. Saliva is the primary method of transmitting mono. Infectious mononucleosis developed its common name of "kissing disease" from this prevalent form of transmission among teenagers. A person with mono can also pass the disease by coughing or sneezing, causing small droplets of infected saliva and/or mucus to be suspended in the air which can be inhaled by others. Sharing food or beverages from the same container or utensil can also transfer the virus from one person to another since contact with infected saliva may result.

Most people have been exposed to the virus as children, and as a result of the exposure, they have developed immunity to the virus. It is of note that most people who are exposed to the EBV don't ever develop mononucleosis. The incubation period for mono, meaning the time from the initial viral infection until the appearance of symptoms, is between four and six weeks. During an infection, a person is likely able to transmit the virus to others for at least a few weeks.

Research has shown that, depending on the method used to detect the virus, anywhere from 20%-80% of people who have had mononucleosis and have recovered, will continue to secrete the EBV in their saliva for years due to periodic "reactivations" of the viral infection. Since healthy people without symptoms also secrete the virus during reactivation episodes throughout their lifetime, isolation of people infected with EBV is not necessary. It is currently believed that these healthy people, who nevertheless secrete EBV particles, are the primary reservoir for transmission of EBV among humans.


As you can probably tell, I've definitely done the research on Mono. According to my Mom, I had it as a child, and the above information leads me to believe I probably was in a 'reactivation' period and I transferred it to Chance.

From what I've read, the only surefire way to accurately test for mono is by testing your blood. "Early in the course of the mono, blood tests may show an increase in one type of white blood cell (lymphocyte). Some of these increased lymphocytes have an unusual or "atypical" appearance when viewed under a microscope, which suggests mono." There are other tests, but they are also designed to rule out illnesses like Strep Throat and Tonsillitis.

For the most part, there is not actual medicine designed for the treatment of Mono. Most doctors just say "let it run it's course." I'm sure you've heard that before, right? Probably about other things, lol. Occasionally, penicillin or erythromycin will be perscribed to treat secondary infections, like Strep Throat. Ampicillin (Omnipen, Polycillin, Principen) and amoxicillin, however, should be avoided, because in 90% of people with mono, it causes them to develop a rash, which is then mistaken for an allergic reaction to the medicine.

Lost of rest is recommended for people with mono, and you are told to avoid contact sports for at least 4 weeks. This is because your spleen is swollen and could rupture, or you could cause liver issues, because both organs are highly affected when you have mono. Tylenol is suggested to treat the headaches and body aches you get with mono, as well.

When symptoms last more than 6 months, this is considered 'chronic' EBV infection. However, lab tests cannot prove continued active EBV infection in patients with "chronic" mono.

I'd like to include an image of mono as it affects someone's tonsils. Generally, 1/3 of people with mono get the white spots on their tonsils. Chance has them currently, however, this image is not of his. His tonsils are no where near this bad. This is an example of how bad it can get. It can also spread to the cheeks and lips, from what I've read and seen.



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My Sources:

MedicineNet.com
PubMed Health
WebMD